Sunday, October 11, 2009

Mummy's boy..

Sending Dillion to the child care means not seeing him 24/7 now. It also means absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Perhaps he do not get that much scolding/beating/ranting from me (when we are at home) now so I can sense that he is starting to get very attached to me when he is not in school.

I can also sense that I have now promoted to his #1 position in his heart.

Few actions that tell me so:
~ He says 'Mummy, I love you' to me spontaneously and a tight hug thereafter
~ I cannot be out of sight when comes to bedtime (so training him to fall asleep on
his own backfired!)
~ He needs to lie on my chest when he sleep
~ He says "sorry mummy" with a hug when I'm scolding and angry with him. (that's a
smart move from him because it soften my heart). He never does that to his Daddy.
~ He now cries for me if Daddy were to bring him out for short walk or playground without me = separation anxiety which never occur before

Although I very much enjoy my own personal time when he is in school, I do miss him loads.
So spending time with my boy is a joy and blessing to me!

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