Discipline Matters..
Please take note that when my son cries for invalid reasons e.g.
1. I restrict him on playing on electronic devices because he had been on it for a tad too long. Then he sees his friend being allowed to play instead.. he started to feel imbalanced.
He cried pitifully as if its a crime to asked to stop playing and to rest his eyes.
He came sobbing to me.
Me, being the strict Mother, will NEVER SAYANG / PACIFY / COAX HIM or even to keep him quiet. Sorry, I do not practice LOVE EDUCATION in my household. PLEASE DO NOT ASK ME TO PACIFY HIM!
Because crying for no reasons does not justify a hug from me. I will gladly just leave you alone to cry it out.. even if you come clinging on to me, I will also let you cry it out.
Because you are big enough .. its time that you differentiate between crying when necessary or for invalid reasons.
Other then being injured, hurt or valid reasons or circumstances .. e.g. your crying disturb people around you.
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